PERKAHWINAN

Marriage is a school where you get the certificate before you start. 

 

A school where you will never graduate. 

 

A school without a break or a free period. 

 

A school where no one is allowed to drop out. 

 

A school which you will have to attend every day of your life. 

 

A school where there is no sick leave or holidays. 

 

A school founded by the Almighty:

1. On the foundation of love, 

2. The walls made of trust,

3. The door made of acceptance, 

4. The windows made of understanding. 

5. The furniture made of blessings. 

6. The roof made of faith. 

 

Before you forget, you are just a student not the principal. The Almighty is the principal.

 

Even at times of a storm, don’t be unwise and run outside.

 

Remember this school is the safest place to be. 

 

Never go to sleep before completing your assignments for the day. 

 

Never forget the C-word, communicate, communicate, communicate with your classmate and with the Principal.

 

If you find something in your classmate (spouse) that you do not appreciate, remember your classmate is also just a student not a graduate. The Almighty is not finished with him/her yet, so take it as a challenge and work on it together. 

 

Do not forget to study, study, study the Noble Book (the main textbook in this school). 

 

Start each day with a sacred assembly and end it the same way.

 

Sometimes you will feel like not attending class, yet you have to.

 

When tempted to quit find the courage and continue. 

 

Some tests and exams may be tough but remember the Principal knows how much you can bear. 

 

Still, it is one of the best schools on earth; joy, peace and happiness accompany each lesson of the day. 

 

Different subjects are offered in this school, yet love is the major subject. 

 

After all the years of being theoretical about it, now you have a chance to practice it. 

 

To be loved is a good thing, but to love is the greatest privilege of them all. 

 

Marriage is a place of love, so love your spouse but remember: “This class doesn’t involve a person who is not permitted into it”! If you invite your mother or father or your friends to this class,   or anyone who is not allowed to be there, you will fail the exam. 

 

It is you who should attend and it is you who will pass. 

 

Its your choice today:” build it or break it”. 

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COPY PASTE FROM Icon Lady (to me) :  Dr. Halina Yunos

 

 

Aku cukup suka baca blog Dr. Halina ni, macam2 idea dan panduan boleh amek. Nama pon doktor kan. Sometime boleh nampak effort dia utk become a better person, wife, mother etc...hoihh jangan dok kira nak gosip je noks. Ilmu orang bagus kita kena baca, ambik tahu dan share jugak. Jangan kalo orang tu xsebulu atau sependapat dengan ko..mula la ko nak 'X' kan page atau pendapat dia. Give n take ok. At least dalam life kau. Bukan orang lain untung pon. Kau jugak kan??

 

So tu la aku nk share kat sini, aku rasa semua kot alami perasaan yang serupa..atau kadang-kadang bila kita gaduh dengan pasangan kita rasa macam 'eh..nape la aku kawen dgn dia, nyesalnyaaa' tapi bila happy...'kau lah penawar dan racun, kau lah jantung hati ku, to die for gitewww'. Ke aku jer??? eh? hahahaha... 

 

Dulu masa aku mula2 kawen..gembira ke..sedih ke..marah ke..even gaduh pon sume nak share dalam FB. (yes facebook!). Tapi bila dah rasa matang skit (erk??) aku mula cool down, duduk dan fikir balik kesan atau akibat kalau aku post sesuatu yang buruk kat FB. Masa marah tu memang lah puas hati kan..dapat meluahkan perasaan kononnya. Tapi bila aku dah cool n calm..perghhhh dia punya menyesal tu..macam nak tanam kepala dalam tanah. Pehtu dah kecikkan hati org. Kalau suami sendiri leh la goda-goda pehtu baik balik (",) tapi kalau kawan2 ke..sedara mara ke??? nak pulak kalo yang jenis mulut puaka kennnn -_-" memang masak lah ko! Even kalo mengata suami pon ko dah berdosa tahu. Ko dah jaja perihal suami kau di mata duniaaaaa!! *(konon2 FB friends aku beribu-ribu lemon org add).

 

Takot dak??takot dak?? bagi aku buruk macamana pon lelaki itu..dia tetap suami kau. Eh..buruk2 pon mengandung jugak kau kan? gitewww.. so adatlah! Anggap je itu ujian. Duduk dan bincang baik2 masalah tu. Paling penting...tolong lah para wanita di luar sana..jangan tanamkan sifat syak wasangka yang buruk pada suami sendiri. Syak ko tu lama2 boleh jadi doa tau dak??? Alih2 laki dah kawin lain. Benda dah jadi memang ko xleh cakap ape la..tapi sebelum jadi..cuba lah elakkan benda tu, bagi layanan yang tiptop pada suami. Aku pernah baca org cakap..suami adalah cermin isteri dan isteri adalah cermin suami. Saling menjaga lah ye. Kalo ko nak dilayan baik..murni, kasih syg ko buat lah dulu benda macam tu pada suami..MUSTAHIL suami xteringat isteri yang baik. Ni kalo dia balik ko tuduh macam2..dari xbuat terus dia buat sebab xbuat pon ko tuduh, baik buat kan. Kalo kita dah rasa kita buat yang terbaik pada suami tapi TUBA juga dia bagi..berserahlah pada-Nya. Dia ada untuk kita. Pasti aturan-Nya ada yang terbaik utk kita. In Shaa Allah. bersangka baik lah ye sayang-sayang sekelian..

 

Kalo ko rasa stress sangat..cuba cari org yang ko boleh percayai dan talk. pastikan orang tu pon positif la orangnye. Jangan cari yang stok batu api ke..kepala angin ke..mengadu domba ke..cari la sebaik-baik kawan yang ko rasa kalo letak sejuta, sekupang pon dia xkacau..giteww *(eh..aku ada sorg, kompem dia tgh baca! hai sayam!)

Stay positive k..kalo ko blur sangat, meh kita share2. Alaaa..aku xkan masukkan citer ko dalam blog munyerrrr *(promise!)

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